Thousands of people come to Relate every year for help with their relationships.

We help all sorts of people in all sorts of situations. We can help you whether you’re in a new relationship, in a long-term relationship, or not currently in a relationship at all. We help with large relationship threatening problems to issues that just make things a little less than perfect. 

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Relationship Counselling

Relationship Counselling can help you talk things through and move forward. It doesn’t matter if you’re married, living together, single, gay or straight - we’re here to help you.

Relationship Counselling

Arguing and conflict

Arguments and conflict are common in all kinds of relationships. But disagreements can be a way to resolve problems and feel closer to your partner.

Arguing and conflict

Affairs

Affairs rarely have just one cause. Understanding the real reason an affair happened can help you both move forward.

Affairs

Communication

Paying close attention to how well we’re communicating with our partner can help stop small disagreements turning into bigger problems.

Communication

Feeling unsatisfied in your relationship

Not getting what you want from your relationship? Here's our advice on what to do if you're feeling bored, insecure, or taken for granted.

Feeling unsatisfied in your relationship

Making your relationship stronger

How to nurture your relationship to make it more fun, supportive and loving.

Making your relationship stronger

Trust

Having clear boundaries and talking about your concerns can help you build trust in your relationship.

Trust

Money and work

Financial issues and work are one of the main triggers for arguments. Here's our advice on how to cope with the pressure of work and money worries.

Money and work

Being single and dating

How to enjoy being single and cope after a break up.

Being single and dating
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Relationship common problems

We’re all different, but sometimes the issues we face can be the same. Our counsellors have put together some practical advice to help you with the most common relationship problems.

Relationship common problems
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Alfie's story

Alfie came to see us because he was unhappy in his relationship. Find out how we helped Alfie, and how we could help you with our range of services.

Alfie's story
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Jade's story

He and I did things very quickly. We had our first date a few days after meeting and became engaged on a frosty Christmas morning a few months later.

Jade's story
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Jennifer and Dexter's story

"Relate counselling helped us to face up to what was wrong. If we had let things go on as they were, we might have soured the relationship for good."

Jennifer and Dexter's story