Face-to-face and online counselling in Cambridge Peterborough, Newmarket, Stamford, Huntingdon, Melbourn and surrounding areas.

It doesn't matter if you're on your own, married, living together, LGBTQ+, non- monogamous or anything in between, it's natural to want better sex. Sometimes there are specific reasons for your difficulties. Don't be embarrassed about it, we're here to help.

What is Sex Therapy?

All couples go through phases where they don’t have the time or energy for regular sex. Our specialist Sex Therapists, provide a safe, confidential space to talk about what are very personal and, sometimes embarrassing issues.

How to get started?

Call us or Contact us to register. 
Once you have registered with us  you will be offered an assessment session. This will help us to understand the difficulties you are experiencing so that we can make sure we are the right agency to support you longer term. We will see you as a couple and then you will each have an individual session with a counsellor. This way we are able to get a full picture of your situation. 

When you start Sex Therapy

If Sex Therapy is considered appropriate, you will start to see your therapist on a weekly basis. All of the work you do in the therapy room is based on talking, however, you are also given homework to do with your partner in the privacy of your own home. 

When will Sex Therapy help?

Sex Therapy is incredibly rewarding and 93% of couples who've used the service said that it improved their sex life. If you've stopped having sex, this programme can help you to rediscover it. If sexual problems are preventing you from starting a family, sex therapy can address the psychological and physical issues and help you to conceive.

How much will it cost?

The initial assessment process costs £75 per session, if ongoing counselling is agreed, each weekly session will cost £75. We will book 15 weekly sessions for this service. Funding and bursary information is available on our how much do we charge page.  


Some of the issues our clients bring include: 


  • Having a different level of sex drive to your partner.
  • Getting stuck in the same routine.
  • Problems getting aroused.
  • Feeling you’re not having enough sex.
  • Issues with premature or delayed ejaculation.
  • Difficulties with orgasm.
  • Painful sex.
  • Sexual addiction.
  • A lack of enjoyment or interest for one or both partners.

Check-in Service 

Check out our new Check-in service

Sometimes it helps to know that once you have completed your counselling you can come back and talk to your counsellor again. That's where our new Check-In service will help. You can contact us between 1 and 6 months after you have completed your counselling and have up to 3 one-off 50 minute sessions with one of our counsellors. You might need to remind yourself of important conversations you had; or refresh your memory about strategies you learnt; or revitalize an aspect of your relationship that needs attention. 

Contact us to make an appointment. 

I feel much better, happier, and less anxious now and I can only put that down to the help you have given me. I am so grateful, thank you.
Relate Cambridgeshire Client