If you re-read what you wrote to me, you do seem to be admitting that there was some sort of banter between you and the person you met on the hike. Yes, she was with her mother and you were rarely on your own together, however, I think you have to be a bit more honest with yourself. You tell me that the amorous content was mostly from her to you which rather implies you did reciprocate and maybe that felt good. Let's face it, feeling you have a bit of a connection with someone else can be a real ego boost. We can feel more attractive, more entertaining, and more interesting when someone other than a partner makes it clear they may be trying to connect. The problem is of course though that the fallout can be very difficult to overcome. If you think about this from your wife's perspective, finding out that you shared something with someone else that you probably didn't want her to find out about is likely to raise her concerns.