Have you ever worried you and your partner might be arguing too much, or too little? Do you think you are a ‘good’ arguer? Do you feel you always give in? Or do feel you are quick to lose your temper?

How you communicate with your partner is crucial in a relationship, and arguing is an important part of that. Also how you and your partner both approach arguing could be very different. Take 5 minutes to do this quick Relate survey to find out how you approach arguments – and get tips from Susan Quilliam, Relate Author of Stop Arguing Start Talking, on how to improve your arguing style. You can also forward this questionnaire onto your partner to find out how your styles match up.